After 11 long years Sean Penn, 47, and Robin Wright Penn, 41, are divorcing, their rep, Mara Buxbaum, confirms to PEOPLE.

Robin and Sean began dating in the early 90's and married in '96. In 1997 Sean Penn told Entertainment Weekly: "Marriage ain't easy, but it's great most of the time, I love Robin. I've always loved her."

Sean Penn is a pain in the ass, you gotta give Robin props for sticking with him for such a long time.

We hope it works out for them, as they have two children together, Hopper Jack, 14, and Dylan Frances, 16.